Angie and I presented our ninth Engaged Encounter Weekend. The 69th Catholic Engaged Encounter Weekend was held from 4-6 April 2008 at the College General, Penang. 22 couples attended the weekend. We were on the presenting team with Fr. Ambrose Vaz, and Jacob and Padma from the Singapore Engaged Encounter Community.
[Participants, presenters and supporting couples of EE69]
We finally got Julian a boat so we don't have to perpetually hold him in the pool. Although the maiden voyage had to be delayed for a few days due to bad weather, the captain has now taken control of the vessel and set sail :-)
Julian went for his regular bimonthly visit to Aunty Nurse on Wednesday (2 April 2008). He weighed in at 8kg. Not as much as we would have liked, but we've become somewhat accustomed to his slow weight gain. His fourth tooth is now clearly visible.
Recently, on more than one ocassion, we have noticed him beginning to let go of his support when standing. At the moment, he's able to remain standing without support for only a split second.
In terms of communication, we don't think he has actually begun talking, but he's been calling "mama" quite often especially when he's upset and wants mummy to carry him, or when we fail to decipher his request for milk on time. When he objects to being carried, he would voice his displeasure and twist his body (sometimes up to 360 degrees) in an effort to get down.
He's still being 'difficult' when it comes to sitting in the car seat, but we have so far succeeded in putting him in at the most important times - when only one of us is with him. Sometimes when we're together we let him 'win' (it can be quite tiring 'fighting' with him) and carry him for the journey.
We attended the Sunset mass for Palm Sunday at the Church of the Assumption. We sometimes attend mass there because we like to hear the pipe organ. Julian likes to go there because there is an Auntie who always comes to say "Hi!" to Julian after mass.
[Julian on Palm Sunday]
Wednesday night of Holy Week saw us at the Cathedral of the Holy Spirit because we were on duty to sing and play the organ for a special weekday mass with an extended surmon by Fr. Fabian Dicom.
Thursday saw us in church again on duty for the Maundy Thursday mass at 5pm.
Friday was Good Friday... again on duty at night. For Good Friday the service has to be specially solemn, so no playing of the organ... just plain singing. Julian was extra holy because he attended the 12 noon service as well with the baby sitter :o).
Easter Sunday morning saw us singing in the cathedral choir. Angie's parents and grandmother, my parents, Niq, Chui Ying and Gabriel were there at the mass. After mass we all adjourned to Pearl Palace Restaurant at Setia Pearl Island Country Club, Sg. Ara for lunch.
Julian is almost 9 1/2 months and getting more and more active. We have now observed him kneeling. We have also since end of February started brushing his teeth.
Recently he has begun objecting to being put in his car seat. But we're not ready to be outsmarted by a baby. So, now we bring along his favourite toys on standby in the car to distract him while we strap him in. So far so good...
After casting our votes last Saturday (8 March 2008), we went over to Butterworth on the ferry. We had wanted Julian to experience a ride on the ferry but, alas, he fell asleep!
[Julian's First Ferry Ride: Hohumm...]
On Sunday (9 March 2008) we noticed that Julian's third tooth had erupted! So now he has two existing ones on the lower jaw and a new one the upper jaw. He has been drooling a lot lately and has been very cranky when sleeping the last two nights. He'd just wake up and cry... must be due to teething. So we used a syringe to "bathe" his upper gums with cold water... seemed to work. Since he now has teeth on both jaws, he has started grinding his teeth (the sound makes me feel uneasy).
The Malaysian 12th General Election has come and gone. It will be an understatement to say that the results were interesting :o). Ha ha... Admittedly, this post is already very late by blogging standards but we thought we'd just punch in a few lines to say "we voted!".
Angie & I strolled into SMK Hamid Khan in Island Glades to cast our votes at about 9am that fateful Saturday morning of 8 March 2008. It was a breeze as there was hardly a queue at our respective streams. Before we knew it, we were already strolling out the centre after drawing our cute little crosses. But of course, not before saying "hi" to Peter, Joyce and Ethan.
Early that night, we knew something interesting was happening when DAP seemed to be doing very well in Penang. So, we went to bed at about midnight knowing by then that Penang and Kedah were in the hands of a new state government.
The first thing we did on Sunday morning was to log on to the net and to our surprise, the "weighing scale" was tipped! No more two-thirds majority in Parliament! I had goose pimples :o). Wowww...
Who did Julian vote for? His own party of course: Parti ABC (Aku Bayi Comel or Aku Baby Choobee) :o)
For a long time, we've said,"one day, we must take a drive to Auto City". That day finally materialised on 1 March 2008 :-)
We chose to visit a KIA showroom then proceeded to do what we like best - sample some cuisine :-) We had dinner at Roxbury's Food House. We ordered Pizzalania (a lasagne baked in a pizza base 'bowl') and varuval cheese steak sandwich. Both met our gastronometer's mark of 'satisfactory' but the varuval scored better. Julian had a share of the sandwich.
[Pizzalania]
[Varuval Cheese Steak Sandwich]
[Julian and Angie at Roxbury's]
After dinner we took a little stroll around. There were some lantern-like displays and a mini fun fair. Julian did not qualify for any of the rides so he had to be contented riding in Daddy and Mummy's arms :-)
[Bird Lanterns: An Avian Fairyland]
And yes, we agree with reviews that it's quite a happening place.
Last week and early this week I was on another baking spree. Pizza was the order of the day on Tuesday (19 Feb 2008). It was an oriental pizza - minced pork with onions in dark soy sauce and oyster sauce, and sausages, topped with cheese. No tomato puree or oregano.
[Oriental Pizza]
On Thursday (21 Feb 2008) I baked my first pie, which I think was reasonably successful :-) It was a lime & coconut meringue pie. It has a sour tinge from the lime balanced by the sweet meringue on top. Quite an exquisite taste, I must say. Never tasted anything like it before. The texture is smooth with hints of desicated coconut although none is used in the recipe. It was an interesting pie. Would make a fantastic dessert to a very rich/filling meal.
[Lime & Coconut Meringue Pie]
On Tuesday (26 Feb 2008) we had bread pudding for supper :-)
Julian turned 9 months old on Thursday (28 Feb 2008). No check-up at the clinic this month but from our rough estimate based on our bathroom scale, he's about 8kg.
He's now an expert on his walker, and has progressed to crawling on his knees.
On the communication front, he seems to be giving clearer signs as to when he needs to poo. He also makes cute whining sounds when he is hungry. Only if we fail to comply with feeding will he start crying.
He loves playing peek-a-boo, "blanket camping", and seeing us balance objects on our heads only to laugh when the objects fall off :o).
We ushered in the Year of the Rat in Penang. Reunion dinner was at my 4th maternal grandaunt's with a gathering of about 25 family members. There were lots of food and fun. Yee Yee was back from Australia and Aileen managed to get leave to be around for the New Year celebrations. Yay :-) !
The first day of Chinese New Year saw us in church before doing the traditional 'new year rounds'. In the afternoon, we went to Butterworth to spend time at home.
[Fried Laver]
[Pig's Maw Soup]
The second day of Chinese New Year saw us back home in Menglembu. We visited Thai Gu in Air Kuning and Chia Poh in Pusing on the third day.
[Clockwise from top-left: Mooi Choy Kiu Nyuk, Mun Joo Nyuk (Stewed Pork), waxed meat, mixed vegetables, Zhar Nyuk (Deep Fried Pork)]
Preparations for this Chinese New Year has been very minimal but we still look forward to the celebrations especially to meet up with family and friends.
Being the stingy prudent pair, we hardly bought anything except for a container of mini dried shrimp rolls for ourselves and some containers of meat-floss-filled love letter rolls to be given away. Not a single crate of mandarin oranges did we buy... shameful?... but we're proud of our miserly achievement (or the lack of it) :o).
Here's wishing you a Safe, Happy and Prosperous Chinese New Year of the Rat from Angie, Julian and me.
[Unusual Orange: Not often do we find an imported mandarin orange with a leaf still on it]
["g" for Gong Xi Fa Chai: The letter "g" at g-Hotel with a cute hat on it]
Last Wednesday (30 Jan 2008), I had the (now) rare opportunity to prepare dinner. since I also have not had the chance to bake for a while, I decided to bake dinner - or at least one dish.
Julian turned 8 month old yesterday (28 January 2008). We took him to the clinic this morning for weighing and to measure his length. Julian weighed in at 7.6kg (an increase of half-a-kati or 300gm in 2 months).
On 20 January 2008, we noticed that Julian's first tooth had finally appeared!
[Pearly white patch]
The past month has seen him getting more and more active. He seems to want to climb on anything in an effort to stand up, and he does this very well on his cot railing, our bed head board, and the sofa.
[The latest in baby headgear: The Jar Jar Julian-look]
On the feeding front, he seems to be lasting longer (3-4 hours) before wanting to feed. He still takes his regular afternoon rice cereal and evening porridge. At the baby sitter, he takes between 4oz to 6oz of milk depending on whether he had just had cereal or not. At home he is still on breast milk. Strangely, he suckles for only 3-8 minutes before loosing interest... we really wonder if he is getting enough.
Socially, he gets on well with practically anybody. He is likely to cast a cold quizing stare at a new face but certainly won't object to being carried by a willing arm. Oh, by the way, he is known to "chio boh siah" in Hokkien (which means "silent laugh")... he just opens his mouth in excitement but no sound comes out :o)! During the past week while eating his porridge, we have noticed that he likes to smile with his nose pulled up too.
Last Thursday (17 January 2008), Julian ate his first baby biscuit. It's quite a hard biscuit which becomes soft and starchy when it is wet with saliva.
Julian was really messy (there were crumbs everywhere!) but he sure did enjoy his biscuit :o).
A few weeks ago, Julian has managed to hold on to our hands and allowed us to pull him up to a sitting position and then eventually to a standing position.
This week on Tuesday (15 January 2008), while in his playpen or cot, he managed to pull himself up all by himself using the railing to a standing position! Yay! :o)
Last weekend (12-13 January 2008), Julian was in Ipoh to visit Grandma and Grandpa. Julian had lots of fun especially since Grandma and Grandpa bought him a walker!
[Julian on his walker]
Julian mastered the walker very quickly and could move in all directions especially the all-important *forward* :o). The walker also came equipped with an "entertainment system" which kept him amused.
[Look Granpa and Grandma! This red ball converts potential energy to kinetic energy which then negates gravity, making my walker float into the air! Amazing!]
The walker followed Julian home to Penang and he has used it to roam from the living room to the kitchen, supervised of course :o). A journey of a thousand miles starts with the first walker?
Last Friday (11 January 2008), we had fried fish in cream of garlic with white wine sauce, and macaroni cheese.
For the fried fish dish, we first marinated the fish with salt, pepper and mixed spices before frying. For the sauce, it's a mixture of garlic, milk, fish sauce, white wine, honey (or sugar) and some corn starch to thicken.
[Garlic fish]
Preparing the macaroni cheese was simple. We bought canned macaroni cheese from Tesco :o).
[Macaroni cheese]
On the whole it tasted not bad. Some garnishing would have made it look like an expensive meal.