Julian went on a school excursion to the CTY Aquarium on Burmah Road on 15 December 2010. Each child was entitled to bring home either a pair of fish or a tortoise. We opted for the fish as they have a shorter life-span.
After the excursion, while at the baby-sitter's, Julian had already subjected the poor creatures to a great deal of stress (read: fish tank tsunami). On the third day, one died. The better half is still alive today, tolerating Daddy's meagre maintenance, and bearing the brunt of the boys' force-feeding.
But credit is due to the fish... because feeding it is enough incentive for the boys to rush straight home instead of dilly-dallying at the apartment lift lobby.

[Julian's first pet]

[Behold the lop-sided one...]
We finally replaced our desktop of more than 10 years on 1 December 2010.
The Intel Pentium III 667MHz machine served us well. It had since had its hardisk, CD drive, keyboard and mouse replaced, and its RAM upgraded from 128MB to 192MB courtesy of a good friend.
Our new machine is a Dell Inspiron 580 with an Intel Core i3 550 (3.2GHz) processor, 4GB RAM, 456GB hardisk, and 20-inch LCD monitor.

[The old Pentium III machine]

[Our new Core i3 machine]
We presented our eleventh Engaged Encounter Weekend. The 79th Catholic Engaged Encounter Weekend was held from 19-21 November 2010 at the College General, Penang. 21 couples attended the weekend. We were on the presenting team with Fr. Ambrose Vaz, and Andrew & Katherine Chong, all from the Singapore Engaged Encounter Community.
[Presenters of EE79 joined by Justin]
Julian turned 41 months on 28 October 2010.
- He's now better at conversing and can sometimes answer questions properly without any prompting from us.
- He is very clear and firm when rejecting something, e.g. at the doctor's he said, "I don't want that" (the spatula doctors usually use when examining the throat).
- He is very fond of saying "I want to go home.", even at home! We're not sure what he REALLY wants. He generally says it when he's not happy about something or when he starts to get bored/tired (when we're out).
- He likes to put on his sunglasses in the car (sometimes even at night) and look at himself in the mirror on the visor. In fact, the visor is perpetually flipped down now for him to 'admire' himself (with or without the sunglasses). That's vanity for you! *roll eyes*
- He's quite fixated when it comes to routines. If a particular routine is not done in the correct sequence, or a 'step' is missed, there is always a risk of him going cranky. For instance, after brushing his teeth he wants to dry his hands. No such thing as going straight to bathe without wiping his hands.
- Being fixated as he is, he also has difficulty with changes. He often resists new things/situations. We have difficulty getting him to wear 'new' clothes sometimes, but we overcome this by telling him they are a present from someone e.g. Grandma, Ah Kong, etc. However, he hardly resists new toys, always insisting on opening the packages as soon as he sees them!
- He's improving in his mealtime menu. He is now open to noodles (though not all types) and he especially likes the ABC pasta that we cook. He also likes papaya, watermelon and apples.

[Julian: The Sliding Star]

[Vanity]
Justin turned 15 months on 25 October 2010. He was at the clinic on 27 October 2010 for a routine check-up. He weighed 9.6kg (600gm increase in the last 3 months). He is now 78cm tall (up from 76cm 3 months ago).
Here are his updates:- He tried some roti canai and seems keen to try adult food. He's losing interest in cereal.
- A ninth tooth has erupted (upper left molar).
- He can climb up the dining chair *horrors*.
- On the talking front, he now says "bye" (and waves as well), "borr" (ball), "ya/yeh" (yes), "there" (and points, when we ask him where certain objects are), "thah" (car), "berh" (bird), "bah" (plane), and "no more".
- He says "airh" to imitate the phonics sound for the letter "A" when Julian plays on Starfall.
- When we suspect that he has passed motion (but actualy did not) and we ask him "Did you owk-owk?", he shakes his head.
- Hugs when asked to "sayang" (show love).
- Can follow instruction to put things somewhere.
- Nods head when we say "thank you" to him.
- Can hold his own bottle.
- He likes to watch Thomas and Friends, and shakes his head when he hears the Thomas and Friends theme song.
- Likes to fiddle with the DVD player. He knows how to open the tray and can place a disc onto the tray with some help. However, he keeps on wanting to change discs... this drives Julian crazy, and a scuffle ensues.

[Justin: Sad movies... always make me cry...]

[Justin: I called you on the telephone... but you're never home...]

[No, that's not **** on his face :o)]

[Justin having a go on the slide]

[Justin sampling a slice of dried apple]

[Justin doing the diaper cheer routine]